The thing is that I want to make sure I am not fighting for this M only because I am "afraid to lose her" I want to fight for it because I feel W and our M are things which I am just "attached" to right now.
I did a little check in my head and it makes me so confused because both side play out equal... I know that the term "soulmate" is just B.S. hollywood puts out to sell movies and an illusion but I feel I would definitely be missing an integral piece of myself without her but I know I would be able to love again as well...
I think the resentment comes from the fact that she has not stated once what she wants for sure yet...
SOOOO confused...
Soulmate is just a word. There are people out there who really want to be with you, who appreciate you, and they support you. Something in how they are or how they do you, make you "much better" than most people. It's because what they are and how they want to do you.
If they don't want to do you like that anymore, then it's not a soulmate anymore.
At some point along the line the WAS decided something was missing in their life and decided to venture out. They replaced alot of services you provided with the OM/OW's
The only way you can get them to see the light with the OP is to completely remove any of your financial and emotional and other means of support. This means your not covering for them, your not helping them financially or in physical means. Let the OP do this. Usually an OP does not want that level of involvement with someone elses W or H, they will just send them back home instead of dealing with that "drama".
