I am going to take S to a Halloween store to pick out a costume then out to dinner. Tomorrow I am going to take him to a movie and an ice cream shop he likes. I figure we can have fun just the two of us, part of GALing right?
Absolutely!!! Do stuff for your S and for YOU right now. Do you have any interests that you have wanted to pursue but haven't? NOW is as good of a time as any BD.
You tried to avoid agreeing to a favor earlier by telling her that you were busy. You said that she asked about it and could see right through it.
First, she has no right to ask you, so give her vague responses. "I'm going out"... "where are you going?"... "I'm going out with friends W. Have a good night."
Second, GET BUSY. You need to GAL for sure! With son, but also with friends. Get out. Try to have some fun. I know that it is hard, but it WILL make you feel better. It will also make her wonder what it is that you are doing. And curiosity and mystery are good things right now.
Third, if you are not busy and don't want to do her the favor, just tell her. Don't do anything that you don't want to do. Don't do anything that you don't feel is right to do. YOu could have told her, "W, of course i love to see son and would do anything for him. But it is your time with him and that is important too. I'm going to spend sometime alone tomorrow night."
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