Last thought for anyone reading my journey, Should I continue to detach or should I ask to sit down with her and go over my boundaries. I want to come home, and I want her to end the affair. I want to know that we are working on our marriage. The last time I told her I was done she responded with, I thought about everything and want to slowly work on the marriage. 2 nights later the OM was again in my bed. Please let me know what your thoughts are.
I still haven't finished reading your posts, so maybe you've come to this conclusion since posting this, but she is clearly NOT working on your M right now.
She is trying on another pair of shoes to see if they fit. Yet she is keeping the old pair (you) around just in case.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
