Over the last couple months I have come to truly understand how difficult this has been for you. Certainly not at the same degree, but nonetheless I do understand. I have been trying to hold on to our marriage and our family, but I feel like all my efforts have fallen on deaf ears. I can only imagine how difficult it was to go through that for so long.
You are an amazing woman and mother, and I will cherish all that you have done for me, and all that you have shown me. I wish you nothing but the best on your quest for happiness. I am always here for you if you need someone to lean on, or just a ear to vent to.
I am really frustrated right now, she literally got upset when I told her that I was going to take my daughter to get her nails done while my son was at a b-day party. She said that is a mom and daughter thing. I said we are both parents now. I think she misinterpreted that and said what she doesn't have a mom. I told her I meant that we each fill both roles now.
2 minutes after she left, she called to see if I had talked to a mediator. I told her I had and said, that since this isn't what I want I will give you the number and you can take it from there. As far as I am concerned the cage does not even exist any longer.
For her sake I hope she can work through her resentment towards me.
And for me I have to figure out how to go as dim as possible in light of our parenting schedule.
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on
