Today was a bit interesting. We agreed I should have S today. He got sick though so she said her mother could babysit him if I wanted to. Uhm. I told her I would have him. After all I'm his dad, in good times as in bad times.
So I finished at work and told her I was on my way. Along the way I almost end up in a head on collision. I go of the road to avoid the other car and need help to get the car back on the road. I call her to tell her I will be a bit late. She gets angry and starts questioning if S will be safe driving with me. I keep calm, explain and reassure her.
When I come to pick up S she is on edge and speaks to me in a hostile manner the first 5-10 minutes. It gets on my nerves, but I keep my cool. I camly state that her tone of voice is quite harsh and what's up with that? She tells me "yeah. I didn't mean to" and switches right back to friendly. Wow. Usually when she gets angry it's hard to turn around and it can take some time before she lets go of the anger completely. I don't put anything into it, but it was a nice change of pace for sure.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
