AS Thanks for the clarification on going dark and detaching. I feel that detaching has worked for both of us, she is not always on my mind and it seems that she has responded positively by reaching out text and call. I know she is just as confused and I know I have to let herself find her way through the fog but patience is not easy. I have read DR but it sounds like I should run back to the bookstore and get DB as well. Since my conversations are limited it sounds like DB may help. Again, thanks for the suggestion. I have now read more books in three months than I have in 10 years. LOL
H: 35 W: 37 S: 7 T: 10 M: 8 OM: Apr. 29 2012 PA: Aug. 31 2012 DWord: July 29 2012 DWord on hold since Sept. 23 2012 DB'n Since October 8 2012