It's time to open the door. I had another talk with DB coach this morning. It brought me some much needed clarity since my chat with W earlier this week when she indicated she really wants separation.

I can't hold her in the house. I can't force her to stay.
It's time to open the door and validate her feelings towards separation. I don't think we can financially afford it, but I'll explore that option with her.

I'm also going to bring up Retrovaille since she wants to work on communication "no matter how this ends up."

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done