Thanks for the birthday wishes. It was a decent day. I did seem to miss XW a little more for some reason. I know that I am not supposed to ask questions, but I'm going to ask anyways:

According to things that I have read, when the MLCer "reconnects" with children, couldn't that just be them trying to "normalize" things? XW seems to be trying to reconnect with them, but couldn't it just be her settling down a bit?

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13