I am starting a new chapter because everything changed last night.
Wife confronted me last night about her plans. She is moving out and states that she wants a Divorce! We had a very long conversation that lasted late into the night. Did not sleep much as is expected.
I handled it very well, I think. Did not get upset nor allow my emotions to overtake me. I was very calm and I told her I understood her feelings. All the reading of other posts has prepared me for last night. I was like a recording of all that I read. I told her that I do not want a D and if she wants to go down that road that it is up to you. I will not help you nor try to control you in any way.
I really could go and cut/paste other posts and comments that she said. I was listening to her and thinking wow I have read all of this before. I also told her that this is your decision and you have to tell the kids and try to explain to them your reasoning. She was a little shocked but did agree. The kids are going to stay with me and we are not leaving the house.
Thats it for now, I have so many questions and thoughts about this sad direction we are heading towards.
