I don't think that is a good idea NinaNina. It might make him mad at his friend for sticking his nose in his marriage. Then your H will be mad at you because he will think that you sent him over even if his friend tells him you did not. Really the best thing to do is have no contact, it brought me peace and it brought him back. But, now I am not really sure I want him back.
Thanks Ready2Quit, This is not up to me if this friend goes or not. He told me he wants to talk to him about life, not about marriage, unless my H brings it up. But you make some good points, I start to think that it's not a great idea either now. Good intentions don't work that well after I think about it. I think I'll have to talk to him again, tell him my concerns, before he decides to go or not. Thank you!
