I know how you feel...you just want to beat the living crap out of the O/W......BUT......it was not her who chose to cheat on you...who knows what lies he told her......I am not saying it is not her fault...but our husbands are the ones who chose to tear our family apart.... I know this is hard for you and when the mental pics of them together flood your mind that alone is enough to want to do harm to her, but really why give them the satisfaction.... The less you give her space in your head the better off you will be... I wish there was something I could say or do for you to stop the pain your are in, but I can't, all I can do is uplift you in prayer for God's peace.....there is power in prayer ...just believe I came here 5 yrs. ago and what I was then iss not what I am now...I am so much better and wiser....I come here to read and pray for those whose wounds are so new that God will heal your heart, but it will get better if you just hand it over to God... May God's peace be upon you ......Irma
