And, a part of me still feels like filing is the best thing I can do for my self-respect. And, if he doesn't snap outta it when i file then f--- him.
I am not going to tell you to file or not to file. But filing will not snap him out of it, that much I know. MLC is not a marriage problem. The marriage is a casualty of war of MLC. Most LBS do not continue to stand for their marriage. So if that is what you choose to do, you will join most everyone else who has come before you.
Standing is for YOU first. Make sure you are making your decisions for the right reasons. Take your time, you are in no rush to do anything.
MHO is FIX yourself first, then decide what you want. You can always file, but once you do it is hard to take it back.
Remember we are on a DIVORCEBUSTING website. The idea here is to save marriages.
