Is it too late to DB?

[caigy72]

This is my first post although I have been lurking here for months. I have read DB and DR several times, so I get what should and shouldn't be done...i'm just really bad at it, I have no patience and thats what you need above all else.

No BD but I discovered an affair in January through looking at the phone bill, I trusted this man completely and this is so out of character for him. He turned really mean shortly after but denied the affair for months saying they were "just friends" she worked with him although she lives in another state from us. He filed for divorce in Febuary an from what I gather she dumped him in March after her fiance found out.

He still lived at home in separate rooms. In July I found out he may be interested in my neighbors daughter who moved back home with her 2 kids...she is also a stripper!!! We have known this girl for years and we both have been disgusted by her, H especially, she uses abortion as a form of contraception. Our oldest son found them in hiscar together at 1am at a gas station in August and he denied, denied, denied. He moved out 2 days later and in with his parents. His dad died last week from cancer he was 66, I think he might get worse now.

He CAN'T look at me when he talks to me or if he even talks to me. I don't call or text unless it has to do with the kids or a bill...he comes to see the kids twice a week for about 1 1/2 hours each time, this from a man who was with them constantly their whole lives. I really think he hates me and this hurts so much as we were best friends for 22 years. Is it too late to turn this around? Words of wisdom is greatly needed.

Thanks everyone.