Need some hope.

[Ready2Quit]

I don't think that is a good idea NinaNina. It might make him mad at his friend for sticking his nose in his marriage. Then your H will be mad at you because he will think that you sent him over even if his friend tells him you did not. Really the best thing to do is have no contact, it brought me peace and it brought him back. But, now I am not really sure I want him back.