Heather,
Just to add a little bit more to what Bea and Cadet have posted. They will remain in replay for as long as it takes for them work through "some" of those issues. The stages are just a guide and are what one person went through (timeline). It all depends upon the individual, their respective personality as well as their childhood issues. The more severe the issues, the longer it takes. Also, the more we poke them and try to reason w/them, the longer it will take as well.

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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.