I guess I'm just so unclear on if he's really finished.
That is not for you to decide. Even if right now he is finished, you can change his mind by showing him that he doesn't need to leave. You can show him that you are changing the things that he thought he was finished for.
Me - 32 Wife - 31 No kids Married - 3 Together - 6 "I need space" - July 2012 Bomb/Presence of OM - August 2012 Separation - September 2012