I meant no disrespect to Cat regarding the "gone again". I appreciate that she takes the time to check in and ask insightful questions. I know she just lost a parent and there must be much for her to do. Sorry if I caused offense, none intended.
I like the "bucket" list idea. Mine would be 10 feet long. Never could figure out what I wanted to do when I "grew up". Perhaps that should be number one on the list?
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.