Well, infamous email was EXPOSED to H & OW's boss by her H today! Her H took it directly to boss- not sure what he hoped to gain from this (...getting back at them both for the pain they caused both families? ...destroying any post-D relationship w his W (they have kids)? ...getting them both fired? ...or just a last attempt to try to show any control he mistakenly thought he had to thward their R)...anyway...
It looks like neither will be disciplined (as email was on private accounts) and no incidences at work have been reported to show they aren't doing their jobs. Their boss will probably have a conversation w each of them tomorrow.
My H is somewhat relieved this won't be looming over his head any more.
I restated my view that I too was glad he wasn't going to lose his job. BUT that to me I wasn't ever really worried about that--I am deeply hurt about the fact that it was ever written & when I think about it I am sad and hurt. (He said he understood.)
On a different not my H fluctuates from telling me everything to shutting me off (& drifting off to sleep on the couch early in the evening to (presumably) avoid conversations w me.) I don't typically initiate R conversations so he shouldn't be worried about at any moment's notice I could strike up a stressful conversation. ...ahh, the roller coaster ride...are we having fun yet?!! (NO!)
I am a ball of stress...only one more night of putting my kids to bed before they are children of separated-parents-to-be. (Next weekend H is moving out). I can't tell you how sick I am about this for them and for me! They are old enough to comprehend what will be happening BUT will NOT understand WHY.
I just want something DRASTIC to happen to knock some sense into my H! I hope his own time/space will WAKE HIM UP!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
