mrsrjd. I just finished reading your thread. Sorry that you are here and living this nightmare as well. It sounds like your H has had just as many tragedies in his life as mine. How can a person's parents not even offer to take their son with them when they move? Where did he go and who did he stay with?

My H says he was ready to leave when he was 16. Hated his parents and couldn't wait to get away from them. Tired of them telling him what to do. Of course at 16 you want to do all of the things that aren't good or safe but it sounds like they were extreme. He's actually said that he's tired of people telling him what to do so that is another sign that he's starting to relive his live and begin his journey at 16 years old he's got a long way to go till he reaches the present.

As for the Mohawk, I think I'll leave that for the someone a little more adventurous. At 50+ I think I'd look like I was the one having the MLC.

Thanks for stopping by. I'll keep an eye on what's happening with you and keep posting here for support and for my sanity.


Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama