You know what? No it wouldn't make any difference. There are things that need to be ironed out regardless. I guess I'm just so unclear on if he's really finished. I've had someone tell me he probably wanted to leave for a while, and just stayed out of convenience. It confused me, because I don't see it that way. He's always been loving and complimentary and supportive. This person made it seem as though he was using me, and that the writing had been on the wall for some time.