Just a quick update of my day..H texted D14 DURING SCHOOL HOURS and advised her:

"you are killing me...literally"

I was pissed as this is not acceptable to be texting her this while she is sitting in World Geo. Not something she needed to have on her head. He also texted her once tonight and said:

"dont ever forget" and sent a picture of him with both girls. She responded by sending a pic back of all 4 of us, and said "ditto"

His response was: "I will never forget. All those memories are what keep me going. I love you all very much"

I am believing nothing, because in my head, if that is what keeps you going is the family and our memories, then why aren't you here with us? Im thinking this is one of those "don't believe anything he says" moments, and maybe he says things like that to D to make her think he still loves me. I know he loves them.

I do think its about time that something be done about the texting D certain things. I dont want to tell him not to text her because I'm scared to death he will bring that up in court and make it seem I am keeping them from him which is not the case at all. I just feel some texts he has been sending are inappropriate and not what a Father says to a D.

Anyway, other than that, day was okay. My friend is trying to get me to visit a psychic with her for fun. She says she has been before and she told her some interesting things. I'm debating about going..not for any answers, but for fun...to see what she has to say. Anyone on here ever been?


M:36 H:36
D14, D11, Baby due in March
M:15
T:18
Met OW: 3/12
H Moved out: 8/12
Legal Sep: 11/5/12