Husband (unfaithful) just told me he wants out.

[PeteWyo]

Bestgal don't jump to conclusions. Just because that was my experience and some others experiences as well doesn't mean anything. I am a very analytical person and things just didn't add up until I found out about the OM. You are the only one that knows your situation as well as you do. That is for you to decide. Let me ask you another question though? Would it matter if there was another woman? How would that make you feel? Would that change your interest in fixing things? It seems that something I'm your relationship drove him the the other woman 7 months ago. You were willing to forgive him then, what changes now if there is ok fact someone else? That is for you to decide. If you are willing to forgive then become the better option and you can laugh with your H about it a couple years from now. I forgive my W for her affair and if she came back, I'm not saying it would be easy but we could be so much better off than we ever were, with time.