I have enjoyed Cat's posts but she's kind of like my calico - disappears for days on end, until I think she's gone for good, then "poof" there she is. I guess she's well named.
I am definitely thinking about things. Big chance I will over-think as that is my tendency. I should be named turtle because that is about my speed lol.
Do I have a choice about taking this journey? Seems my boat has been shoved off the wharf but I realize its up to me as to where I land.
I am fairly well out of H's way. Realized in communications today that I actually have long been out of his way. A 180 for me would be to square off on his path and grab him by the shirt. But I don't think this is the time for that. It is the time for GAL, and I'm working on that. At the pace of a turtle.
Must have been love. Nobody makes my H do anything he doesn't want to, and he's stuck around for over 20 years. I am now more aware of the temperature of that love. Unlike the boiled frog, my water progressively got chillier.
Thanks for the encouragement. Hope you're right about my progress.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
