I'm glad you and the children are enjoying yourselves. You don't realize just how much egg shell walking you've been doing until the MLCer is away for a while. The tension level drops quite a bit and you can relax and enjoy life.
As for your h being angry...well sometimes the consequences of our actions hurt and that's how you learn. Oh, your h hasn't seen conflict yet...
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
