Why do the majority of men tell me "oh he's probably cheating." Some of them don't even know him. Is that usually what's happening when someone threatens to leave, seriously?
I think so. I never thought my H was cheating when he first told me he wanted out. I didn't even question him, I just thought he was unhappy. But later he told me he's been cheating for quite a few months at that point. I was shocked!