Realistic Optimist Hard At Work

[Just A Guy]

but I keep seeing her slooooooowly phase things out from married to room mate.

Same happened with us up until W moved out. I think you're exactly right, she's likely doing it intentionally to help you "adjust".

I feel I should not use those issues to bring up an "I feel" discussion or potential argument. At the same time I know I have to do some thing as it is one of the ONL things W has said that really bugs her...

I agree, there was a time for that but it has passed. For now you're DB'ing. If and when you get to piecing then this is something to work on, but not right now.

Also I am just starting month 4 of this crud... If this has to go on in the same bed for the next 3 and a half months I might lose my sanity....