Thanks grateful. I can really relate. My H did try to change the situation we were in, but I wasn't aware back then. He probably felt really bad back then and couldn't see the light.... now he found someone new, and he think it's his true light... I really can't argue with it.... I can't help crying and feeling betrayed but I think he must have had his hard crying moments too.... after all, I know he is not a bad guy..... I just feel so sad we had to come to this. I don't want to accept the truth, I guess that's why it is hurting me so much.