Hi Starsky - I understand your point. I really can. All I can say is that I've looked into it pretty seriously since then and I'm convinced there was no A. I have some friends here that had to do the complete investigation of this individual - email to email and day to day - if there was any evidence I'd know. If you want to say that the behavior was unprofessional, disrespectful of my feelings, or bad for a marriage I'd agree(though she wouldn't). I'd agree that she is growing out of the M (she wouldn't).
I know the board is full of people who got blindsided when they weren't expecting it. I'm just saying I don't want to go around expecting it all the time.
