I think your lack of assurance and self-confidence in the marriage (heck, even in YOURSELF) stems from the fact that you've never gotten any final verdict, one way or another, as to whether or not your wife has had an affair with this man.
It's not paranoia when they really ARE out to get you.
By what objective means did you determine this:
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I am now convinced that there was no PA and that type fo EA was really my W being head over heels "in love" with her job, the travel, and the fun exciting things this man provided as her boss. It was also her desire for independence, her lack of emotion and reassurance to me, the stress of our busy family, and my insecurities and fears. This man juggled several women (using company funds) in addition to his wife, and was probably "grooming" some younger workers here - so certainly HE was interested. But she, as far as I can tell, walked the line.
