If you don't have one, perhaps it is a good time to get a custody / visitation agreement in place with your H.
Please take this advice. It is long overdue. Continuing without a formal custody arrangement has essentially created the current conflict and other conflicts with your WAS and children. Why have you not done so yet?
It really is in EVERYONE's best interest.
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304