I would definitely not initiate any R talk at all with him and not share anymore about your emotional state. You've said things could be different if he leaves OW. That is enough info for now.
Maybe your H feels that sex with you would help him leave OW. I don't think that would be a good foundation for your R though.
Stay strong and keep GAL.
Me: 51 H: 52 T: 23 yrs M: 19 yrs S18, D16, S14 (special needs) PA: 2003/2004 Piecing: 2004 on Suspect H had EA: 8/2012-12/2012
Hi Shelby, just coming in to echo what you have been told already . You are getting great advice here.
Stay strong. thinking of you (((( ))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Thanks for talking me out of contacting him the other day. After i got pass that I felt stronger and more in control of my emotions again.
He was up visiting again yesterday. He spent the night at his Mom's, when he dropped by again today to finish getting the house ready for this storm, he mentioned that he asked his mom if he can move in with her temporarily, of course she said yes.
So I guess that was a first step. Second step of his will be to actually tell the OW he his moving out, and move in with his Mom.
I am watching.
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
