yes I know I should have handled it better but I read on anotherstander sitch someone had reported that you have to have some fights so I thought I should stand up a little...I don't want to look like someone who is always rolling over do I?
That author claims that some fighting is healthy to keep a good marriage strong. It's not intended as a way of fixing a failing marriage though, in fact fighting has the opposite effect on a failing marriage. If you fight with your WAW then she just becomes more convinced that she really is right in leaving and that there's no hope.
