Bottomline, kids should never be used as the glue in a M. If the M can't stand on its own, then there is no M.
Crazy...If you didn't want your kids to have the best things in life, then you shouldn't have kids, especially for WAS who has multiple children and then decide its time to go. Forget M, as a parent you do what is right for the kids. Unfortunately many WAS have that mentality of "ME, ME, ME, ME and the kids will be okay"
I have a situtation and right now, I am letting my spouse go to find her happy place but guess what, I am willing to put up with all her crap so I can give my kids the most stable life. If i had to live as a roomate with her, so my kids can have a better life, so be it.
I will pretend and put on my happy face for my kids. Will i be happy? No but once i had kids, life wasn't about me anymore.
