Exposing the affair was due to another forum advice i received. I come to the conclusion, it was too aggressive.
I only exposed the A to the in-laws because they kept asking and since they lived with us, they already knew we had big issues. Her dad guessed it was OM. Then they told their sons....which of course i get blamed for it because when the sons found out, i asked them a question if i was terriable to their sister.
I stopped involving them, but I can't stop them from being their parent to her, after all they do live with us. I already asked them to stop talking about this.
I know the failure was on my end with the marriage but i also realized its not me committing the A. She had a choice to do it or not.
How about the other 2 questions
Question How do i handle the discussion of kids custody? Do i stick to my guns about the schedule since i feel its best for the kids?
Do I seperate my funds? Or wait till she makes the 1st move on seperating funds? I make the majority of the income.
Thanks Jack3B
I picked lostsoul because for the 1st month, i was a lost, i lost my identity, lost my emotions, lost my sanity, well you get the point
