From what I can tell MLCers are nothing BUT confusion. I think of them as Tasmanian Devils whirling around and knocking down anything they come into contact with.

I wondered, do you/ did you ever say ILY first?

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.