1. She called today and asked if I could have S for a day this weekend even though it's "her weekend", she had been asked to work. I said yes because, well, I would like to see him as much as possible. She thanked me, and it sounded almost as she thought I did this for HER. I'm glad to help, but my goal was to spend time with S
2. Also, we have scheduled a (obligatory) meeting were we will go over the details about S, who will have him when and so forth. If the chance arises I would like to let her know that this is not really what I want(I hope we can consider reconciliation down the line), but that I hear her wish and choice and will respect that. I've been a bad listener and have ignored a lot of "nagging". Even though it seems it's too late for us I want to change this habit of mine.
3. I haven't asked for us to do stuff together, we have a weekly activity we do with S for half an hour though. I'm set on keep giving her space and not ask for anything. I keep phone conv short, simple and civil. I'm not quite so business oriented when we're together though. I try to keep things cheerful and positive.
I guess all in all I feel a bit confused right now, but I would love to hear what you guys think...
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
