Welcome to DB Portia. Sorry you have to be here and hope that you find some help and solace.

I do wonder if the following was what you intended to say?

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I am hoping my "non-traditional" status keeps folks from offering their advice.


I am thinking you meant you hope your status does NOT keep folks from advising?

There are both married and LTR individuals on this forum, all are welcome.

It sounds like you have a unique sitch due to the geography issue. I know there have been other posts involving LDRs, perhaps an "old timer" can refer you.

I'm too new to offer much advice, but you definitely have my condolences.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.