don't have views on anger towards/forgiveness for OM - i've not been there.
--be thankful

think i'd feel sorry for OM w his questionable morals and odd way of showing he cares for W by disrespecting her M
--of course OM has questionable morals, but I honestly never thought that way

i think the forgiveness/compassion is for W and you have that in spades
--mind clarifying, the spades part?

Tori,
It felt more in the moment since we we're discussing "daily struggles," but I do see what you mean

I see this OM leaving her life soon. The 6 months average duration for an A is true.
--I hope it's her that leaves him wink

Thanks for hte support and all
currently, she has sent me several friendly even joking emails and texts. Hope that lasts and it's true, not guilt based.

I'll check back later.