Just had an email from H.

Hello, did not sleep well again last night. Think they do not know what a soft bed is anymore here. Hope all is going well, will try to get hold of you to wish S16 well in his game on Friday.

I have noticed "not sleeping well" to be a recurrent theme in his communications. The hopeful part of me reads that as code for missing me because he has said before that he never sleeps well without me. Is this wishful thinking?

I responded to him.

Are you sure its just the mattress that's the issue?

All is going ok.

Thanks for checking in.

How'd I do? Was the mattress question out of line? Thanks for your input.


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Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.