Is not following through a pattern of hers from the past?

Was she always a bit passive-aggressive but you had adapted to it and didn't notice it as much?

Or maybe it's in her L's control and it just hasn't happened yet.

You will be OK.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss