I haven't read the book so might be operating under the wrong assumption. My thinking is that an individual might have different receiving and transmitting LL. Although, I would suspect that how one registers love would be much like how they express love...

As far as I can tell my husband doesn't express love for me. He provides for our family which is commendable and honorable but as for something especially for me - I just don't see that. Help me, ask me some questions so I might find how he does communicate.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.