He says he's seen one. I don't believe him. Last year when we first separated he saw one but felt forced to so he didn't really use it to his advantage. When we went in to the first false recovery we saw a marriage counselor and things were ok until he began running into her places (he refused to change his AA meetings or do anything to prevent seeing/speaking to her, much like he's doing now which is why I told him it WILL happen again as long as they stay in touch). Eventually the marriage counseling sessions turned into his love affair sessions. And because the marriage counselor did not discourage it he felt it was not "wrong" so he left me for her. The marriage counselor refuses to see us. He said as long as there is a third person we will never save this relationship. And he does not believe my husband will end things based on their ic sessions. This was in June. I have not been back to him since. I have my own IC. Who is encouraging me to file papers.
WS moves out 9/11 OWH DD#1 12/11 FR#1 1/12 DD#2 2/12 WS leaves 4/12 WS tries FR#2 6/12 WS/OW move in 7/12 WS leaves OW 9/12 WS back with other OW 12/12 Said OW demanding we D 5/14/13 WS files divorce 8/28/13
