Here we go again...

[someguy1233]

I'm having a rough morning.
Last night I got home from work and W was home early. She had made dinner. We ate as a family. We played with S and put him to bed. She made a comment about my hair looking nice. Later she commented that she liked my jeans. After putting S to bed she was on the computer so I went and worked on some projects in the garage with out saying a word.

She came out to the garage to have a smoke (a bad habit we both quit before S was born, but has resurfaced). She told me about her bad day at work and how much she still hates her job. We discussed possible jobs she's applying for.

She went inside and slept on the couch with out saying goodnight or anything else.

This morning she was ANGRY. S woke in the night and she tried to sleep with him on the couch. She took this anger out on me. I validated her comments and remained positive.

On the drive to work we were talking about her coworkers that are transferring to a different state. I mentioned that my boss had offered for me to transfer my job and I had declined because I don't want to move away from family. She made a comment that I could transfer and she would move to a nearby state. She said we could split S two-weeks at a time.

This comment hurt deep. The fact that she was so quickly able to think about living states apart and only see S every 2 weeks was like a knife to the heart.