He says his silence is because " I've been very stressed on the decisions I have to make" and while I know that is true and I originally said I would step back and let him figure it out. I also feel as though I am being sucked back into this game. And here I am again waiting for him to chose.
Is it fair to tell him that, that while I understand he is stressed I also feel like I am back in this game and that i feel like he fished to see if I was still interested. And when he found out i was willing to try and work on it, he pulled back again, and that it is really a simple choice... Either you want to work on us or you don't.
Should I say anything like that or should I just tell myself that and then continue GALing while he figures himself out ?
Hope I made sense. Thank you.
Go about your life as you have been. Let him pursue YOU.
You’re not waiting for him to choose, you’re waiting to decide what YOU choose. I really think it would be bad to jump back in here. WAIT, and see where he is down the road. If you must tell him something, just say you’re not sure yet. Give him a chance to show his true colors.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
