Advice needed again. Please

He says his silence is because " I've been very stressed on the decisions I have to make" and while I know that is true and I originally said I would step back and let him figure it out. I also feel as though I am being sucked back into this game. And here I am again waiting for him to chose.

Is it fair to tell him that, that while I understand he is stressed I also feel like I am back in this game and that i feel like he fished to see if I was still interested. And when he found out i was willing to try and work on it, he pulled back again, and that it is really a simple choice... Either you want to work on us or you don't.

Should I say anything like that or should I just tell myself that and then continue GALing while he figures himself out ?

Hope I made sense. Thank you.


Me:43
H:43
T:20 YRS
M:15 YRS
Bomb: 6/9/08
Bomb#2 7/6/10
Served with papers at work 7/13/10
DD:14, DD:11