No contact from H since an email yesterday. In the email I think he lied to me. He said that his son was in X city and that H might stop "on the way home" to see that son. According to FB the son is NOT in X city, an hour away, but is in Y city 6 hours away (as in the opposite direction, adding 12 hours driving time). It is possible H did not see son's update on locale. My only response to the email was "OK. Thanks for letting me know."

H did not give me a phone number where he is now (he doesn't have a cell). So, I can't call him to let him know D18 didn't come home last night. Hopefully she will surface in one piece and I won't HAVE TO EMAIL H SOME SORT OF BAD NEWS. Rather, strike that, extremely annoyed at the carelessness? irresponsibility? disregard? of a parent who goes out of town (roughly 600 miles out of town) and does not give contact info.

And the ever present chest pressure increases....

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.