vero, why are you angry? how can you express the feelings behind the anger in a non-threatening way?
i posted on someone's thread, men don't like anger. really, i don't think anyone does.
maybe, when you feel the anger start to rise up, from your gut to your brain (where it feels like it will explode), maybe you can try to breathe deeply, stop yourself, and think about the emotion that is the originator of that anger; fear, pain...
let yourself feel sorry for yourself instead of angry with H. maybe then, he will display the compassion you're looking for?
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing