thank you bug for that post. thank you for the encouragement!
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Then the thought came to my mind, "You feel sad, it's OK to feel sad. These are feelings and they will drift off. Tomorrow you will feel totally different." And I did.
This is an excellent example of parenting yourself!!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017