Originally Posted By: needgrace

so i let my mind go to some fears i have been resisting..

that this D is moving forward and that W may never give us another chance..

and you know what... I was okay... I am okay.. I will be okay..


Your post reminded me...

My Al Anon sponsor had me write a fear list. When I included things like, fear of losing my kids, of my kids being physically hurt, of dying; I no longer wanted to include fear of H not returning. To h3ll w him if he doesn't come back. I'm more worried about my kids and my well being ;-)


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017