so i let my mind go to some fears i have been resisting..
that this D is moving forward and that W may never give us another chance..
and you know what... I was okay... I am okay.. I will be okay..
Your post reminded me...
My Al Anon sponsor had me write a fear list. When I included things like, fear of losing my kids, of my kids being physically hurt, of dying; I no longer wanted to include fear of H not returning. To h3ll w him if he doesn't come back. I'm more worried about my kids and my well being ;-)
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017