Still together but trying to save this

[Denver_2010]

Ugg.. sorry I haven't been around much the past couple of days. I do have thoughts.

1) I think that your response to her text is very good. I hope that's what you sent.

2) I am seeing your W initiating contact with you more than she had been. Would you agree?

3) You should be in LRT. She is with another man and has stated that the M is over. MWD states that each of those are a circumstance where you should go LRT. I agree with her.

4) Let her pick her stuff up without you being there. You are not ready to have contact with her. That's my opinion. I actually think that you are making some progress here. She is initiating contact. Let's see if that increases by continuing to do what you have been doing.

5) While we may be seeing some progress, some interest in what is going on with you, nothing drastic is going to change as long as OM is in the picture.

6) No divorce paperwork has been filed (right?)... so nothing drastic is occurring on that end.

... So continue doing what you have been ... and be patient.